Staying bachelor means you don't deserve the respect from anyone in the society?

Q: I encountered a brutal mental stress yesterday night. We are three bachelors staying in an apartment here, never been complained about anything though its been an year or so.. last evening, as it was a Friday night and i am in IT industry, some of my team mates drop down to my place to "celebrate" weekend. At around 1:30 Am in night, we went to common area and sit beside the swimming pool. we were just discussion things, and how much of "shor" and "Nuisance" u can make if you are gently talking to your 3 other friends. But guess what, after being warned rudely by an security guard, our flat's door bell rang, and two police men came to our place.. we have been abused mentally and monetarily. Just because we didn't knew that it is not allowed to sit near by pool in late hours of night? just because a man with wife and family thinks all bachelors staying alone don't have any ethical and moral values towards society?? Does staying bachelor means the security guard at main gate can address

Anshul Sharma,

13th May 2011

Kumar Shantiniketan Phase 1, Baner, Pune

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We don’t want you or your undisciplined, uncultured IT friends here. Why don’t you take them along, go back to your home town and do whatever it is you wish to do over weekends in your own home & house in front of your parents, neighbors & relatives. I am sure at 1am in the morning all of them will be proud to witness how they have brought up their children.

Like I said, if you love getting drunk over the weekends with your “IT friends” & then decide to haunt the society premises inebriated and involve in group discussions in common society areas in a state of drunkenness, KS is probably definitely not the place for you. Why don’t you use your IT Company premises for such activities. BTW, pl also ensure you have some decent English classes close by, so you can give the Indian IT sector a break and bestow your kinder eye upon its evolution thru your mastery of the English language. Anshul, seriously, leave KS.

Sam, Pune

14th October 2013

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For one, your English sucks and if anyone educated enough were to listen to you talking even in broad daylight, not only would it be a headache to hear such horrible English, but I too would call the cops. Try some other language like Hindi or your mother tongue, people may just end up understanding you better. For two, bachelors don’t really celebrate weekends, they get irresponsibly drunk, create a fracas, nuisance and make a mess, litter and generally upset the entire environment. Kumar Shantiniketan is a prime project with the larger flats going upwards of 1 crore. It is hence amply better that if you love to drink over the weekends with a bunch of your so called “IT friends”, and have habits of strolling out in societies at 1am in the morning & discussing technology & world politics, you find societies which allow such behavior as a part of their laws, bylaws or practices & where such inebriated behavior is accepted, encouraged and not objected too. KS is definitely not for you!

Sam, Pune

14th October 2013

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Does staying bachelor means the security guard at main gate can address you as "Tu", and can say anything like "Tu, samajhta kya hai apne aap ko?"..

Does we really deserve that? Scolded by security guys and can't raise to anybody,just because we are bachelors and everyone think, those ought to be us only who make mistakes and be on the fault side.

Anshul Sharma,

14th May 2011

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